I haven't bought any of the stuff since the 1950s, but aquarium aquarium shops should have it. If you want to shop on line, try drsfostersmith.com. As an alternative, you can buy white aquarium gravel, but it will show any of the clay based substrates you add. I use pure laterite, because one ounce per gallon is all that's needed. Laterite is a tan color and it does not significantly change the color of the white gravel, although it takes a few days to settle.
I believe the 1950s white sand came from White Sands, New Mexico. My parents went by there once when I was a kid, and I put some of the sand in a jar. It was probably not radioactive.